One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

one simple lesson that brought joy back to my lifeOne Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

We look super happy in this photo, didn’t we? We were sort of happy, but we were stressed. Alan has enough school and family work to fill his plate, but he does well. I’ve already said a thousand times that the first year of home schooling has been a huge challenge for me.

I was surviving, really. There was more stress than joy in my days. I was living frustrated.

I ran into a mom that I sort of know at Daniel’s tee-ball game two weeks ago. We’ll call her Angel from Heaven. 😉 For short, we’ll just say Angel. Angel has invited me to different things, multiple times. She has made a concerted effort to be my friend. We have a lot in common. She has five kids. I have four. We both home school. We both have pre-teens as well as little ones. Her husband is a chaplain. Alan is not a chaplain, but we do love Jesus. 🙂

Despite all of Angel from Heaven’s best efforts, I stayed at home like a little hermit crab. There was one day that I really WAS going to go to the beach with her and all of our children, but that’s when I came down with bronchitis.

So when she ran into me at tee-ball, excitedly commenting about CC being over for the year, and I replied with, “Oh, we still have 3 weeks of it left, and I’m so ready to be done,” I think she knew I needed encouraging. She invited me to a marriage class that she and her husband are leading. I mentioned it on my post 13 Wonderful Things. 

It was a very successful first class for our whole family.

I can’t tell you how much we needed this! Two hours of just Alan and me–eating out!

Here’s what they taught us that I think made the biggest difference (combined with two good hours to just have dinner with Alan).:

Pray together.

Sure you’ve all heard that. But pray together for each other, everyday. Ask each other, “What’s on your mind right now? How can I pray for you?” Then don’t jump in with a solution. Just listen and then pray for only each other. You can pray about everything and everybody else any other time. 

We’ve prayed together, occasionally, throughout our whole marriage, but we’ve never made a purposeful effort to simply pray for each other, together, every single day.

Now, you know I’m a big believer in prayer. It’s the number one reason my faith in God is unshaken. He’s answered too many of my prayers, in BIG ways, for me to ever doubt him.

I can’t explain it, ya’ll, but this week has not looked like any other week of our school year.

I’m happy! Like actually happy!!! I am not fussing at the children, unless they are fully deserving of it. Ha! 😉 I am not dreading getting out of bed. For the first time in a long while, I’m actually enjoying my days. I let the kids jump a little longer on the trampoline today. I let them watch a movie in the morning. We still got through our planned lessons for the day. We even made cupcakes. 🙂

No, I know; every day won’t be perfect.

God never promised a life of no trouble at all. However, you don’t have to be very old to figure out that all of life goes better for you when you make good choices, put your faith in the right places, and pray.

So even in a week when my computer didn’t want to work, Daniel drew on the walls, the boys played in Poison Oak Woods (without permission), Alan had to dig an under shirt out of the laundry basket, and my face exploded in acne, I am happy as a lark.

Now, I promised you beautiful photos from Carmel Valley.

I love ya’ll. Thanks for reading my blog. 🙂

“Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.”      James 5:16

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

Carmel Valley

Carmel Valley

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

cozy book time with Mommy

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

Snail!

Poor snail. JD never saw him, and he never saw JD coming. He saw only the blue bottoms of the size 7 Spiderman shoes. Sometimes life ends suddenly…. 🙁

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

best friends: Buzz and Darth

Daniel and his best friend. We’ll call him Darth. Darth and Dan are just alike, and they are inseparable. Darth is moving in a month, which just breaks my heart for little Dan.

Thankfully, Dan will still have this best friend. Brothers are forever.

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

Digging through the library book bag

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

spring in the valley

One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life

spring at the ranch–Run, dog, run!

18 comments

  • Nonna

    Great repost! Wonderful pictures and memories!

  • Pingback: Stories of Our Boys’ Top 10 Posts of 2015 – Stories of Our Boys

  • Jenny

    New to your blog and I’m hooked. I’m an Al girl with a son 8, and daughter 4. We homeschool too!

  • Donna

    April, you are up to #49! Let’s all remember to vote on her Top Mommy Bloggers button everytime we check the blog! Good stuff, April!

  • It looks a lot like our home with different faces! 🙂 Thanks for sharing your joys but also your struggles. Wishing I could convince my hubby to pray WITH me. I will settle for now for praying for us. 🙂 Blessings.

    • AW! So true, that not all hubbies want to take part. Your praying for the two of you as a couple can go a long way. My mom prayed for my dad for like 25 years, and eventually he accepted Jesus. I suppose some Christian men also feel uncomfortable praying WITH their spouse, but even still your prayers will be effective. You are right on.

  • First off, your blog looks really nice! Good for you on implementing all of the changes. You did good 🙂 Also, that is a very important lesson. One that is so easy to forget.

    I love seeing pictures of your cute boys!

  • Nicole

    Thank-you for the reminder to pray for each other because yes we go thru the list about everyone and everything else!! Teared up looking at the pic of the boys in the bunk-beds. We recently finally parted with our last set ( we have gone thru a few sets over the years… been given/upgraded a few times) Eventually they are too heavy to sleep above each other and then too long to fit in beds with foot boards…..

    • OH, this so sounds like my future! We are a tall family…..with the exception of dear Daniel! I know I will cry the day we move on from that too! Glad I could give you a reminder. 🙂

  • Great blog post, and gorgeous pictures. This is uplifting.. my hubby and I are going through a valley in our marriage, joy-wise. Still very content, happy even, but not filled with that joyful abandon we’ve been blessed with these past 6 years as a couple. We’ve started praying for one another earnestly, and we’re seeing God in our marriage in miraculous ways.. great post!! – http://www.domesticgeekgirl.com

    • That’s great that ya’ll have started praying for one another too. I know you will see results. That new baby phase can make you so tired that it’s hard to be giddy–it’s a calmer kind of happy. It took me a looooong time to come out of that after my last baby. I love babies, but at the same time, they are great game changers.

  • I need to go to there; Carmel Valley that is 🙂 Beautiful pictures 🙂 Happy to hear everything is going well!

  • Good! Yeah the comment method is different now for the home page. I don’t like change either.

  • Daddy-O

    Hey! It worked like it was supposed to.

  • Daddy-O

    This is a test to see which episode this message will show up on. I didn’t see a way to comment on the April 23rd post called “One Simple Lesson That Brought Joy Back to My Life” ~Daddy-O

I love comments! Otherwise, it's really just me talkin' to myself...

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.