One day, back in 2007, my friend Chrisynda paid me a visit. That was back when Joshua was a baby. Well, Chrisynda got on my computer and showed me all these things that had begun the last few years that I knew nothing about. She introduced me to three very important modern advances: MySpace (remember that?), Facebook, and our friend, Jennifer’s, blog.
I was floored! Here was this website where I could find all of my old friends. I became a Facebook junkie.
And Jennifer’s blog? That was also a break through. I was happy to learn that Jen and I had had our first babies just a week apart. I was less happy to learn that he could crawl and walk way before Joshua could. The first born lives under so much pressure. Joshua began walking at 12 months and crawling at 9 months. I felt like he was so extremely behind, with the crawling. HA!! JD didn’t crawl until 10 or 11 months, I don’t even remember, and I wasn’t really worried about it.
Jennifer’s blog was on xanga.com, and I was so impressed that she could write, post pictures, and upload videos, to share with her friends and family, all in one place.
Fast-forward a year. Alan left for Iraq, and I wanted a way to share with him all that he was missing with our precious baby boys. I decided it was time to start my own blog. That was 2008, and I’ve been blogging ever since. I was an instant blogaholic. I just loved all the praise I would get from family members, “We are loving these Xangas, April, keep ’em coming.”
I blogged, privately, for 5 years. I bailed on Xanga when they started having difficulty, and how I wish I’d backed up all my work because now it’s awfully hard to retrieve. The whole platform came tumbling down just months after I jumped ship. The videos of my babies are long gone. The pictures and words are there, but the background is altered from what it used to be, so you can’t actually read the words. I have to work pretty hard just to save those old thoughts.
My mission: I have got to retrieve those xanga.com blog entries before they are gone forever. It’s rich with memories of Joshua and Caleb as toddlers, and I just can’t let that slip away. Look for a “Xanga” tab soon, where I will be archiving those posts onto this site.
Here’s one to get us started:
April 5, 2010
Let me know if these pictures work or not. I’m trying the easiest method first.
The photo above is of people listening to a woman talk about George Washington. The brick building is his tomb, and he is actually buried in it.
These are photos from our Mount Vernon trip. It’s all of 15-20 minutes from our house. Tourist season has hit FULL speed. To get into Washington’s mansion there was an hour long line…we decided to not torture our children and ourselves with that and opted to just see what else Mount Vernon had to offer–plenty!
The boys were so excited to find a “cow”. I called it an ox. Alan wasn’t so sure. Anyone know? I assumed ox b/c it was big, and the lady on the hay ride told us Washington used mules and oxen.
Another exciting day! We took the boys to Target and purchased bicycles and a wading pool! We are so ready for summer…
The boys and I took a walk by the river to the playground over there this morning, and I was amazed to notice the view down there. My parents took a walk on the Potomac every night of their visit, and I’ll be sure all future guests get to see it. Sitting on the bench at the playground I looked across, and I could see George Washington Masons Temple, Reagan Natl Airport, Alexandria skyline, the Pentagon, Arlington skyline, the National Cathedral, the Washington Monument, and the Thomas Jefferson Monument, along with the rest of the DC skyline. Pretty cool.
We also went to the thrift store on post today, and I found the newest looking baby stuff I have ever seen in a thrift store: boppies, strollers, a playpen, and a bassinet all in perfect condition! I wanted to buy it all………but then I reminded myself that –hello– I am not pregnant, nor am I about to be. But one day, I believe I will be again b/c we both would like to have another. : ) Don’t worry, Dad, I will thoroughly verse new doc on my previous difficult births…not that we’re even there yet, b/c we’re not.
I have my first confirmed houseguest for the summer. My college roomate Nikki and her family (husband, who she was dating in college, so we already know him–plus two little girls). She’s arriving July 13 and staying four days. How exciting!
Oh! Cute story from Easter. We were leaving a playground with Fort Belvoir friends, and Caleb had followed Serena around the whole time. Caleb just begged and begged her to hold his hand, and she told him no. So Joshua asked her if she would hold his hand, and she said yes. Poor Caleb, but he was not to be discouraged. He kept asking and asking and asking and asking (meanwhile she’s holding Joshua’s hand all the way back to Keara’s house), Caleb put his little hand out there, and pointed at it with his finger, “Hold my hand. Hold my hand.” So cute! Finally I couldn’t take it anymore, I said, “Serena, will you hold Caleb’s hand b/c it will make him so happy.” She said sure, and walked the rest of the way home between my two little boys. Then she said, “So Joshua, do you want to stay over?” “Sure!” “Can Joshua stay over at my house tonight?” “No, Serena.” “Okay.”
This afternoon we returned home from the thrift store (where I proudly left without purchasing thing number one! : ) ), and to my horror I discovered James and John (neighbor children) playing in a new wading pool out front. Oh my boys wanted to be a part of that so bad! But Caleb was in bad need of a nap, so I explained to them that we don’t invite ourselves to swim in other people’s pools and we will buy one of our own….hence the 6:30pm Target trip tonight. Later on I did let Joshua play with them at the pool, but he did not have fun. James and John are big splashers, which Joshua hates, and no matter who or how many times we asked them not to splash Joshua, they continued. Joshua finally splashed James a few good times, and James said, “Stop. That’s cold.” It didn’t last long before Joshua willingly came home. And again, the SOABRs are moving to Burma in May…
(SOABR= super obnoxious annoying bell ringers) —Editor’s note: I was new to the whole kids’ friends thing. It was hard because my children were still too young to play unsupervised, so every time they wanted them to play, we all had to go out. I had a lot to learn.
Oh! New quote I like: “The Almighty has His own purposes.” –Abraham Lincoln.
One more thing! Status report on Alan. He pulled some muscles in his back that has been VERY painful for him this last week. You know it’s bad when Alan slows down! He’s doing slightly better, but he’s just still not up to full strength. Apparently they know it’s muscular as opposed to spinal if the pain does not travel down your legs. That’s probably common knowledge, but I didn’t know that, even with all the back woes I had last year. Of course mine is all up and down my leg, and that’s how they knew it wasn’t muscular initially. Pray Alan feels better! We need him and his back! Plus he has a long plane ride Saturday, and as those of us in the back pain club know, that can be real torture!