In fact, we have gone to great pains to make our Alabama trip this summer a ROAD trip rather than a plane trip. However, unexpected things came up, and I ended up flying to Florida, of all places!
On Tuesday and Wednesday, I had hit a mental wall. Does that happen to you sometimes? Nothing that you could possibly do sounds like a good idea. There is nothing interesting. In fact, you really want to get in your car and drive and drive.
I was homesick, and I wrote about that here. Our family feels so far away. And as it turns out, cabin fever is a REAL THING. We, like many of you, have been on lockdown, or even phase two of reopening, for four months now. Unfortunately, the rona is still a threat, and kids are not great about germs and not touching things, so I do not feel secure about putting all the boys on a plane and flying home to see my parents. My dad has COPD, so that wouldn’t be right.
Wednesday afternoon, I convinced Alan to go somewhere with me, to pick up dinner. I cannot even remember where we went to get food. Oh yeah! Chipotle! We were on our way to Chipotle for take out, and I got a text message from my friend Jennings. I usually see Jennings at least once a year. She is a flight attendant, so traveling is what she does. Plus, she is the best at keeping in touch.
So Jennings texted and said she is at a local-ish airport. For the past few days, before she called, I had a seed of a thought of going to see Jennings myself. The thing is I never know when she is home, and usually it is hard for me to get away. I texted her back and threw my idea out there. She has come to visit me so many times, and yet I have never visited her. I was finally in a place where that could be fixed. Alan is working at home now, so he can actually take care of the children on a couple of weekdays too.
I did a quick scan of airline ticket prices, and they were still cheap even if you buy them the day of right now. So few people are flying.
I ran the idea past Jennings. She hopped right on board with my idea and then did one better. Jennings supplied me with buddy passes, so it actually cost me nothing at all to fly to see her.
Alan approved the plan, especially since there will be a month between when I do the flying and when I see my dad, so I am not putting him at greater risk.
We made the plan on Wednesday night, and I flew out Thursday afternoon. Now how is that for spontaneous?
I drove myself to Washington Dulles airport at lunch time on Thursday. Dulles Airport is in the Washington, D.C. area, and that involves driving on the beltway, which is normally a packed interstate highway. I have driven on 495 during COVID a couple of times now, and it is a completely different experience than it used to be. It is more congested now that in was in the beginning of the lockdown, for sure, but it still is not the intimidating ordeal that it normally is.
There are normally two economy rate daily parking garages to accommodate the massive amount of travelers. For now, only ONE of the two garages is open, and it is at least half empty, if not more than half empty.
I parked as close as I could to the shuttle stop, took a photo of my parking row identifiers, grabbed my suitcases, and headed on in. Of course, I just missed the shuttle, so I went by foot.
What more can I say? I walked right up and checked in. There were no lines anywhere, except restaurants. Very few restaurants were open. Almost all stores and food places were closed.
More and more places are gradually re-opening, but I would not risk it. You do not want to end up delayed and starving in an airport. Some cities I went through had more food available than others, but there was no abundance of choices anywhere. Plus, it is much safer to eat your own food from home. Any time we eat out, we are accepting a risk, whether we are in our home town or on the road.
“No water bottles? Liquids?”
“No.”
“Do you have food?”
“Yes.”
“What food do you have?”
“Oh…uhhhh. Um…crackers….cheese….almonds…..” I also had dried tart cherries. Those help me with my arthritis, but for some reason also having cherries felt embarrassing to admit, so I did not.
Everyone had their mask on. I came in contact with very few people on this trip. Everyone tries to sit in chairs away from other people. The lack of lines makes distance easier to accomplish, and even on the plane you do not actually have to sit directly next to anyone.
I never heard anyone coughing on the plane, but there was an older lady with a wheezy sounding cough in the ladies’ bathroom one time. That did make me a little nervous. I was extra careful to steer clear of her, bless her heart.
While Washington Dulles was extremely dead, Atlanta was still hopping with people. However, it was probably less than half of the amount of people normally in Atlanta airport. I am completely serious. Usually it is hard to even find a seat in Atlanta. Now there are humongous sections of completely empty seats everywhere. There is no reason to have to sit next to anyone.
With most vendors closed, demand was high for Charley’s, Chick-fil-a, and vending machines. On Sunday, Chick-fil-a was closed, so that is when I saw longer lines for the first time. Plus, the vending machines were hit so hard they were half empty.
Packing your own food gives you so much peace of mind, about not starving and about not catching the rona.
Most importantly for me though, it is all about my ear problem. Nothing helps me with my ears more than eating on descent. I have sinus ears because I am allergic to everything, and I have had sinus ears since I was a baby. Even sleeping in my bed at night sometimes makes them hurt as my sinuses settle into one ear or the other. A year ago I flew with a head cold, and it took a month for me to fully recover my hearing. I have to have that food as the plane descends to help my ears pop with the landing.
Thankfully, this trip went well for my ears. An hour and a half from the airport, just as I was getting off the exit that goes to my house, my right ear popped, and I am hearing just fine today.
Also great: On three out of four of my flights, I had an entire row of three airplane seats to myself. Across the aisle, that person had a row of three seats to themselves too.
Each airline has its own policy for this, but Southwest provided each traveler with water and a pre-packaged snack mix on each flight. This was all accomplished much more quickly than the service usually takes too because without all the choices, the flight attendants were not having to drag the cart down the aisle and take orders. Plus, again, there are far fewer passengers.
During boarding, the Southwest agent only called up ten people at a time, so there was far less proximity. However, we passengers were not good about staying six feet from each other at all. As you step onto the plane, old habits kind of take over, and you end up right behind the next person. However, you are not facing each other, and everyone is required to wear a mask.
Jennings has even seen a couple of people show up in full haz-mat suits!
Masks are a great idea, and they are proven to truly help slow the spread of disease. That is a blessing. Sometimes, though, especially with a good sun burn, it can feel hot and blehhh. The best way to get a break from your mask is to take a water break. No one is required to wear a mask when eating or drinking, so get yourself a big cup, scoot away from all the people, and sip on that drink for a while for a good mask-break.
I do realize it is a little controversial to take a trip like this in the current state of the union, but I had to accept that risk. We like to pretend like mental health is not important, but I could not disagree more. Our whole family has lived in full lockdown for four months, and y’all, there is a limit. I do promise that I was extremely careful. This can be done. We all take a risk every time we get take out food, so I do not see how this is any different.
But to be completely honest, yes, I will be nervous for 14 days. While I was very careful, I was in Florida, where rates are notoriously high.
Now on the next post I will tell you more about this trip, which was exactly what I needed!
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Great post! Everything looks really empty but I enjoyed watching pictures of you with a face mask. In my opinion, it is the only way that we can protect one another during extensive travel.
I wish you my very best!
Thank you!
What fun!! Praying you stay well after your trip and can see your father without additional worry. I flew on March 13 to see my mom and March 20 to return home. The airports were fairly empty. For my flight on the 13th, there were very few people on either plane but on the 20th there were more people traveling. Possibly trying to get home after spring break and before things got worse. At the time, we weren't wearing masks but once I got back home we began wearing masks immediately. You certainly look pretty in yours!!
Can't wait to hear more about your vacay.
Oh, I think the airports were even emptier then. That must have been kind of eerie too. Thank you for the compliment!!
I go back and forth wondering if I am ready to fly. It is great to hear from people who have traveled to get an idea of how safe it is. Good for you for getting a mental break from the craziness!!
True. It feels like a big decision. I didn’t have much time to think about it, so I went with the impulse. Happy travels! The snowbird life sounds so appealing.
I'm reading this while on a flight. I can relate to most of your experience. I'm flying out of Fort Lauderdale and I wasn't expecting to see an almost full airport.
Wait, was it full?
My husband and I took a quick 2 day driving trip up to Maine where we did stay in a hotel, ate out a few times, and even went shopping. I too felt like the risk was worth my sanity. I love my family and I am well used to staying home with them but I am not used to staying HOME with them... normally we have day trips, and vacations, and we're over friends houses or they're here and while we are doing some of that lately it's much less than normal and I was really feeling like I needed a change of scenery. That beach looks amazing and I am so happy for you that were able to put this trip together last minute (and fly for free!!).
Thank you!! I felt like I was posting this at the risk of public ridicule, but it is my truth. Sanity helps us make wise choices, be loving mothers, and stay healthier too, right? I’m glad you got to take your Maine trip.