It is so important to teach your son about home repairs. Yes, girls can definitely benefit from this too! At our house, we just happen to only have boys, so I tend to focus on raising boys.
This is a guest post that I think brings an awesome point: training up your sons on how to work with their hands. I want to make sure we use these tips at our house more too, and I hope you find this as helpful as I did.
Who doesn’t respect a handy man (or woman) who is capable of doing his own home repairs?
One thing every parent would agree with is that raising kids can be challenging. It can be tougher if your children are all boys.
There is a limitation to applying the parenting methods we learned from our parents years ago. Things have changed.
The perception of manhood some years back includes working hard and respecting and protecting the family at any cost. Men who watch their fathers act this way grew up with the same characteristics.
Over time, as innovation presents new job opportunities, there is almost no need to showcase fitness. Companies now operate hybrid workplaces; hence no need to rush to work. With a smartphone, you can order virtually anything and have it delivered to your doorstep, including booking a repairman.
Think they do not need it? Well, what happens if the technician fails to show up? Would you encourage them to call a technician to change a bulb that can be replaced within a few minutes?
Giving them an all-around education, both book knowledge and practical experiences, is essential.
For instance, take them along or involve them when purchasing Shower Door Hardware. Let them know how to choose the right hardware for a shower door.
Repairs can be a boring task for someone with no interest; below are ways to make it fun:
Kids are more intelligent and braver than you think. When supervised, they can safely handle most repair tools, including sharp ones.
Invite your son whenever you are fixing anything. Educate them on what you are fixing and why you perform certain actions.
Explain why you handle the fixing yourself instead of hiring a technician.
Take them along on your next car routine maintenance trip. You may also visit a repair shop or repair café in the neighborhood to show them the beauty of machines.
Let them see first-hand that the appliances they use at home are not powered by magic but made up of different parts designed to sync.
Kids need supervision when working with tools. Teach them about safety features, correct their mistakes, and show them better ways to do it. Only allow them to repair plugged or powered appliances with supervision, except those that use batteries.
You do not have to be handy yourself before teaching your kids how to do minor repairs around the house. There are lots of videos online to watch.
It would be fun to watch it along with your sons while you try out the recommended steps. However, here are five easy steps you can use to teach your kids about home repairs;
Familiarize them with the required tools for the repair you are willing to train them. If you are unfamiliar with the tools and their functions, watch videos to learn what they are used for, and then pass the knowledge on to your kids.
Once they are familiar with the tools and their uses, the next thing to do is train them on safety. Do this irrespective of your boy’s age.
Also, teach with examples. For instance, narrate how you got injured while repairing something.
Make it fun instead of being similar to their typical school class.
Purchase a child-size toolset and set up a workshop if you do not have one already in your garage.
Make them write out the names of the tools and have them added to the toolbox. This will help to memorize the names of the tools.
Buying them tools and creating a garage will give them a sense of ownership and could pique their interest in the lesson.
Assign them tasks that will require the use of one of the tools. Instead of loosening a screw yourself, ask them to do it.
Finding the right tool for the task will help them become more familiar with the tools.
The project should be age-appropriate. You can start by loosening the screws of the drawer and instructing them to screw it back.
Painting is another project you can make them execute but ensure all necessary areas, such as floors and furniture, are well covered using drop cloths.
You can teach kids how to fix a blocked toilet or sink. Direct them to fix a leaking tap and educate them on the importance of conserving water. Let them know about the water bill.
There could be a time you may not be around to change a faulty bulb or fix a socket that does not work. Teach them how to do this safely. Show them the circuit breaker box and how to operate it.
Let them know it is safer to switch off the power before performing any electrical repair.
Woodwork encourages creativity. Let them build anything of their choice or something they will find amusing. This may be a birdhouse or a doll house for their sister.
Likewise, you can show your kids how to fix home furniture with minor issues, like removing stains and discoloration.
Painting is a fun activity that your kids will surely like. Give them the brush and watch them unleash their creativity.
Train your son on basic car repairs, such as changing a flat tire and car oil.
Show them the normal car maintenance routine and how to interpret warning signs such as dashboard indicators.
Your boys might not be strong enough at the moment to help you with repairing the fences. But watching you do it will undoubtedly help them later.
Reinforce in your kids the importance of cleaning. Establish a routine. You may mandate all used dishes are washed after dinner, before they go to bed. They should be able to vacuum and dust furniture.
At an appropriate age, make them take out the trash and wash the trash can when needed.
If you have a lawn, teach them how to operate the mower.
Other repair skills to teach your children include:
When you teach your sons home repairs, everyone benefits. Your kids become more confident in their own abilities, and your future daughter-in-law will thank you for sure.
Happy Fall, friends!! If fall is the season of change, I feel like we may…
I think it is a healthy thing to go digging for physical evidence of the…
Every single year, Daniel must be buried in the sand. I even found one of…
Today I have a mental health expert here to help us with talking to our…
Today I have a guest post for you on the topic of important considerations for…
Did you know 2024 year is an important year for the D.C. Cherry Blossom Festival?…
View Comments
By teaching your son these valuable skills and instilling in him the confidence to handle home repairs, you're equipping him with practical knowledge that will serve him well throughout his life.
These are all good tips!!! Thanks for sharing!
Absolutely agree! Teaching children, whether boys or girls, about home repairs and maintenance is a valuable life skill. It not only saves money but also empowers them with practical knowledge. These skills foster independence and responsibility. Thanks for sharing these insightful tips!
We always encouraged our boys to use real tools and help alongside us as we've made repairs to the house. I can honestly say I only have 1 that was really interested and made sure to learn a lot along the way but at least we tried!
Ha! Yeah, I hear ya. Hey, you did your job. Mine don't all love it either. The rest of them will care when they are grown and their A/C unit goes out and they will be calling and asking us what to do.
Excellent advice🧑🔧
Thanks! I know Nonna appreciates your handy man skills, and I appreciate you teaching them to Alan. We almost never have to hire anyone.