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					<description><![CDATA[<p>The doctor said not to walk and to rest my feet this week, and I really like it. Is that funny that I like it? Am I not supposed to? Does that make me sound lazy? I&#8217;m not lazy. I&#8217;m quite industrious here on my sofa. Yes, I do admit to spending way too much time reading Facebook yesterday. Way too much time, but that aside, I&#8217;ve been productive. According to my Fitbit, I still managed to get 4,000 steps [...]</p>
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<p>The doctor said not to walk and to rest my feet this week, and I really like it.</p>



<p>Is that funny that I like it? Am I not supposed to? Does that make me sound lazy? I&#8217;m not lazy. I&#8217;m quite industrious here on my sofa. Yes, I do admit to spending way too much time reading Facebook yesterday. Way too much time, but that aside, I&#8217;ve been productive. According to my Fitbit, I still managed to get 4,000 steps yesterday. Maybe this is what it&#8217;s like to have a desk job instead of being a homemaker.</p>



<p>I have blogger friends who do this everyday. They work on their writing, promotions, and blog work all day long, and they are far more successful than I am with their websites due to their consistency. Maybe I should do this more often. I love it.</p>



<div class="wp-block-image"><figure class="aligncenter size-large"><img data-recalc-dims="1" decoding="async" width="401" height="650" data-attachment-id="13230" data-permalink="https://storiesofourboys.com/2020/01/15/its-funny-how-our-disadvantages-can-become-our-blessings/attachment/81929528/" data-orig-file="https://i0.wp.com/storiesofourboys.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/81929528.jpg?fit=401%2C650&amp;quality=89&amp;ssl=1" data-orig-size="401,650" data-comments-opened="1" data-image-meta="{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}" data-image-title="81929528" data-image-description="" data-image-caption="&lt;p&gt;artwork by JD&lt;/p&gt;
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<h4 class="wp-block-heading">What do I do all day?</h4>



<p>For this entire week, I am sitting on my sofa doing things on my computer. </p>



<p>First, I get the boys off to school. The middle schoolers don&#8217;t need anything from me, but I chat with them while I drink my coffee. Then we wake up the younger two. I fix their breakfast, boss them around, and then I walk them to the bus stop. No one ever told me when I was just a 6-year-old bossy know-it-all-little-girl that I could use that for my motherhood gig.  Ha!!  I&#8217;m kidding. I direct the children. Does that sound nicer?</p>



<p>Then I come home and eat breakfast while I check the messages and see if there&#8217;s anything new and interesting on social media. I&#8217;ll call my mom or text my husband. I look over my checking account and pay the bills.</p>



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<p>Once my feet get too cold to sit any longer, or my sciatica kicks in from the sitting, I get up and do a few chores while I listen to a podcast. My current favorite is the<a href="https://thankfulhomemaker.com/podcast/"> Thankful Homemaker.</a> She&#8217;s a little older than me, and her stuff is so wise and Biblical.</p>



<p>Then back to my sofa I go to create pins for Pinterest, read other people&#8217;s blogs, and work on writing new content and fixing up old posts as well. Today I learned that broken links are bad for search engine optimization. Yipe. This website goes back to 2014. I have about a billion broken links, especially since Top Mommy Blogs shut down, which I was a very active member of.</p>



<p>At 3, the boys come home. I do more chatting, and we work on studying and homework. Caleb has been walking down to the bus stop and picking up the younger two for me while I&#8217;m down. Around 5 or 5:30, I whip together a dinner. Alan comes home around 6 or 6:30, and we usually all eat together. Then we wind down and spend two hours getting our kids to bed. I know that&#8217;s crazy long, but I like to read with them.</p>



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<h3 class="wp-block-heading">Do you know what this week taught me?</h3>



<p>God provides exactly what we need. This has forced me to sit down and work on something that I actually love to do. It&#8217;s a gift. Too often I don&#8217;t work on it because I feel guilty to be blogging when there are bathrooms I could be scrubbing, and even &#8230; well&#8230; I hate to admit this. I judge people for doing this very thing&#8230;. There are still blanket Christmas lights on three bushes outside in my front yard, and here it is already January 15th!! Alan took down all the lights that were up high, but he left the ones on the bushes for me to do, and I haven&#8217;t done them. At least I did unplug them around January the 5th.</p>



<p>So see, there&#8217;s always something, with a house full of people, that needs to be done, but this has forced me off of my feet and onto my laptop. I couldn&#8217;t walk around all day if I wanted to. It hurts too much.</p>



<h4 class="wp-block-heading">It&#8217;s funny how our disadvantages can become our blessings.</h4>



<p>That&#8217;s how it is with my sore feet. Here is this unexpected free pass to stay home and write and edit to my heart&#8217;s content, and so for that I am thankful. Yep. I am thankful for bad feet!</p>



<p>What are you thankful for today?</p>



<p><em>*Linking up with Finish the Sentence Friday on<a href="https://tamaracamerablog.com/love-the-easy-ones/#comment-77792"> tamaracamerablog.com.</a>*</em></p>
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