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		<title>Funny Stories Plus My Plans for the New Year</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>This is my picture of the year for 2015. This totally sums up what I&#8217;m wanting this year to be like. Last year was all change, change, change, and more change. It was WORK. It was learning to teach again. It was so much learning I thought my brain would bust. Nothing against work and learning, but I&#8217;m still exhausted. Let&#8217;s make work and learning a little more fun for all this year, especially me. This year we will not: [...]</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style="width: 672px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-zZhnHQel61M/VOpU4FRAbYI/AAAAAAAARcg/DKYWqPeVSxo/w809-h455-no/blog2015%2B-%2B1" alt="" width="662" height="372" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Joy.</p></div>
<p>This is my picture of the year for 2015. This totally sums up what I&#8217;m wanting this year to be like. Last year was all change, change, change, and more change. It was WORK. It was learning to teach again. It was so much learning I thought my brain would bust.</p>
<p>Nothing against work and learning, but I&#8217;m still exhausted.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s make work and learning a little more fun for all this year, especially me.</p>
<h4>This year we will not:</h4>
<p>1. move</p>
<p>2. change schools</p>
<p>3. Go whole weeks without leaving the house.</p>
<p>4. give birth</p>
<p>5. wean a baby</p>
<p>6. Say good-bye to all of our friends.</p>
<h4>This year we WILL:</h4>
<p>1. Go to the beach more often.</p>
<p>2. Have lots of guests!</p>
<p>3. Keep on home schoolin&#8217;.</p>
<p>4. Potty train J.D. (later this year&#8230;not now)</p>
<p>5. Finish our first year of home schooling.</p>
<p>6. Go to Legoland.</p>
<p>7. Visit the San Diego Zoo. Oh yeah, baby, that is so happening soon!!!</p>
<p>8. Have my lesson plans done BEFORE the new school year starts. That&#8217;s a benefit of being a second year CC&#8217;er. I actually have some clue as to what is going on. That statement is probably something only a Classical Conversations family could understand. It&#8217;s just a whole other method of schooling that will shake up your brain and fill it with tons of new information and ideas.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve captured a few of our recent 2015 adventures on camera:</p>
<div style="width: 341px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-EdHGmQrGiJI/VOpU4ECJYXI/AAAAAAAARco/4VpnXfCbRhM/w331-h588-no/blog2015%2B-%2B2" alt="" width="331" height="588" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Batman went to Joshua&#8217;s basketball game with us.</p></div>
<p>My friend Jennifer showed me a &#8216;meme&#8217; online that had a picture of a Batman mask. It read, &#8220;Always be yourself. Unless you can be Batman. Always be Batman.&#8221;</p>
<p>Daniel is following in Caleb&#8217;s steps of costume love. We often hear Caleb ask Dan, &#8220;Dan, do you want me to go dress you up in a costume?&#8221;</p>
<p>They have quite the super hero collection.</p>
<h3>Do you know what else Caleb likes to do? He makes up math problems on the board. In his free time! Never have I ever.</h3>
<p>Did you know that we sometimes call John David &#8220;Joshua #2&#8221;? It feels like raising Joshua all over again&#8211;a more aggressive version. Anyone with three older siblings will come out kickin&#8217;.</p>
<p>What makes him like Jman? So many things! He loves books. He&#8217;s allergic to nuts. His face is very similar. He&#8217;s the same size that Joshua was. He&#8217;s high maintenance. They have all been high maintenance, except for Caleb.</p>
<p>Let me take a moment and thank God for the one low maintenance child&#8230;.</p>
<p>haaaa! Of course, Caleb is a wild card. You never know when he&#8217;s going to take some freak notion to try to walk to school by himself, like he did in Kindergarten, BUT I will say that I&#8217;ve never seen a more self-reliant child. He almost never asks for help.</p>
<div style="width: 341px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-e4gUs77YW-w/VOpU4Gd0HeI/AAAAAAAARc4/8H8CRT-csh8/w331-h588-no/blog2015%2B-%2B4" alt="" width="331" height="588" /><p class="wp-caption-text">JD LOVES books. I think most kids do.</p></div>
<p>I already wrote about Jennings&#8217; visit, but I didn&#8217;t share pics from beach day #2. We were much better prepared. All boys had on swim gear. Caleb wore very little, and I really don&#8217;t know how he didn&#8217;t freeze to death, but he didn&#8217;t.</p>
<h3>Sometimes I wonder why we don&#8217;t just go to the beach every day.</h3>
<div style="width: 549px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-8l8LQtrCh30/VOpXHxusXFI/AAAAAAAARds/Ie17C0Pq_X0/w809-h455-no/blog2015%2B-%2B7" alt="" width="539" height="303" /><p class="wp-caption-text">When small people steal brownies</p></div>
<p>Last weekend, we prepared Daniel a perfectly good lunch. Then we went upstairs, and left him alone in the kitchen to eat it.</p>
<p>We also left a pan of cooling brownies on the counter. So there you have it.</p>
<div style="width: 341px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-I2iWe2lH0C4/VOpXH8U5j1I/AAAAAAAARdk/oya43JuNnhM/w331-h588-no/blog2015%2B-%2B6" alt="" width="331" height="588" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The young author needs lots of room to spread out his work.</p></div>
<p>Joshua has a new hobby. He writes and illustrates copious amounts of comic book stories.  I get a kick out of the way he spreads them all out on his bed.</p>
<div style="width: 544px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-In8WoIao-Ss/VOpU4FcK-9I/AAAAAAAARdc/8SZsPvqLkHI/w809-h455-no/blog2015%2B-%2B5" alt="" width="534" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">beginning PreK 4!!!</p></div>
<h3>I&#8217;m gradually easing Daniel into PreK4.</h3>
<p>I love the Montessori preschool style, and we are also doing that with Daniel. I have a whole post that I&#8217;m working on about that.  Coming soon!</p>
<p>This pic is of Daniel enjoying an A Beka learning game. Every time he correctly says a letter sound, he gets to put an apple on the tree.</p>
<p>Believe it or not, Daniel will also be a Classical Conversations student in the fall. Too cute. My expectations for that are pretty low. I&#8217;ll just cheer on whatever he does learn and not spend a single second concerning myself with what he doesn&#8217;t learn. Entering as a K4 student, he will learn Cycle 1 memory work 3 times!</p>
<div style="width: 534px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh4.googleusercontent.com/-XNXilMGRyo8/VOpXH9d8bpI/AAAAAAAARf4/KyHIfimbQEQ/w809-h455-no/blog2015%2B-%2B15" alt="" width="524" height="295" /><p class="wp-caption-text">JD had a ball playing with Aunt Jennings at the beach.</p></div>
<div style="width: 529px" class="wp-caption aligncenter"><img loading="lazy" decoding="async" class="" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-xRpJK9rH5nU/VOpXH7SlhCI/AAAAAAAARgI/x2ZVVR5MOrg/w809-h455-no/blog2015%2B-%2B16" alt="" width="519" height="292" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Day 2: These two never did get wet.</p></div>
<p>Do you remember that pre-teen girls&#8217; sleepover I mentioned? Well, they painted my nails. I haven&#8217;t painted my nails since about 2005, so now I have these horrible chipped, purple sparkly nails, and not an ounce of polish remover in the house. I am such a boy mom. Now I have to go buy nail polish remover.</p>
<p>I also learned that when it comes to modern pre-teen pop culture I apparently &#8220;don&#8217;t know anything at all!!!&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;What is BAE? What does that mean???&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;It means above all else&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>Wait&#8230;but wouldn&#8217;t that be AAE? Or maybe they said better than all else. I forgot already.</p>
<p>Then, of course, I had never heard of any of their bands/songs/singers. Also, did you know that many of these children have their own smart phones??</p>
<h3>I cannot imagine giving a pre-teen unlimited, unsupervised access to the internet.</h3>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry, but I think that is a terrible idea. Plus, it&#8217;s impossible to run any activities with people who are always looking at their phone.</p>
<p>The most startling realization from all of this is that our Joshua is only two years away from being a member of this &#8216;middle school&#8217; crowd. He&#8217;s nine!  Does that mean that some kids his age are already getting their own smart phones??  Giving a kid a cell phone so you can call them is one thing. Giving them a smart phone where they can access porn, snapchat, and anything else in the world is totally different. I&#8217;m not talking about 17 year olds. I&#8217;m talking about middle schoolers.</p>
<p>Electronic time is such a new dilemma for my generation of fellow parents. Our parents had to deal with Nintendo time. We have to worry about what they might access on an iPad!</p>
<p>Alan and I have stuck to our &#8216;no electronics during the week&#8217; rule. They can play video games on the weekend. This weekend they didn&#8217;t even get to do that, but no one seemed to miss it. We are also very strict about what video games enter our house.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d better run. Daniel and John David are ready to get out of the bath tub. When all else fails, baths are the greatest way I know to entertain small children.</p>
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