The Technical Wedding Vows We Should Have Made

We have officially been married for 13 years. I don’t remember our exact wedding vows, but we believe that when you make a promise, you keep it. Here’s my more technical–specific to Alan and me– translation of the vows we should have made…. to have and to hold, from this day forward, even when we are apart for months and even a year at a time, when you are getting on my nerves and I’m driving you nuts and acting […]

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So they are no longer two, but one.

This week marks 12 years that  Alan and I have been married. God blessed the day I married my better half. One of the best decisions I ever made was one of the ones I was most criticized for. I do think people’s opinions can be helpful, and I do listen to the advice of others. But what others? You have to be careful about which group you are listening to. Our closest friends and our parents never doubted us […]

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